Over the holiday break I had enough time to dig into some longer stories online, and one notable piece really captured my attention.
The New Yorker-published A Midwife in the North Country brilliantly shed more light on the US health system’s skewed approach to childbirth. It followed one committed and hard working midwife — a woman named Sunday Smith — as she went about her home birth midwifery rounds in ‘day in the life’ style.
What is a butter birth?
The whole piece is excellent and a recommended read, but this reference to “butter births” caught me by surprise:
“Smith has attended a hundred and eighty births since moving to the North Country, and the vast majority went according to plan,” The New Yorker story explained.
“Several, she said, were what she calls ‘butter births,’ in which everything goes so smoothly, even peacefully, that it can seem like a mother ‘just melts her baby out’.”
Butter births? Melting babies out?! Are ‘butter births’ a thing? I wondered. And was this a term other midwives used?
A little bit of digging showed that ‘butter birth’ really does seem to be a descriptive term used by the birthing community. Perhaps you knew this already? I didn’t!
Butter birth 101
Another birth insider explains more:
“If you’ve been in the birthy world long enough, you’ve heard the term ‘butter birth’,” birth blog The Bitchy Birth Bloggess says on her site. “Essentially, this means a labour and birth that was smooth as butter. A labour where mom hardly had any pain, a very short pushing stage, no extra bleeding, and probably not any tearing.”
(Incidentally, The Bitchy Birth Bloggess suggests this term may do women a disservice by categorising and idealising a particular sort of birth.)
My digging revealed that other references to ‘butter births’ have popped up online too, confirming this term really has been adopted by some childbirth professionals.
For instance: “there are often sweeter motivations for us to enter this awe-inspiring field,” Jan Tritton wrote in a 2017 issue of Midwifery Today.
“It is the most precious experience to be there when motherbaby emerges as a new mother and new person Earthside, especially when the birth goes well—as some of my friends call it, ‘a butter birth!’ ”
“Smooth as butter”
Registered nurse and doula Amanda Willis also described a birth she attended where there were no complications and the baby even arrived on her due date as a ‘butter birth’.
“These beautiful butter births do happen and can happen!” she wrote, documenting the “buttery” arrival of a baby named Ava.
Nurse and doula Donna Hayes described a similarly uncomplicated birth she attended on the blog The Adventures of a Doula, noting the mother “went on to have an unmedicated easy birth of a beautiful baby girl. ‘Smooth like butter’ is how we, in the doula world, describe the birth. It wasn’t my first ‘butter birth’, but it’s always amazing to watch.”
Birth goals? It’s not that simple
Clearly not everyone will have a ‘butter birth’ and it shouldn’t be held up as some sort of ‘birth goals’ to put pressure on mums-to-be, either.
Every labour is different and comes with its own set of circumstances and challenges. All births are significant in their own unique ways.
That said, these ‘buttery’ uncomplicated births are an interesting phenomenon … and definitely a relief and a blessing for birthing mums and the midwives who attend them.