13 things new mums only discover in the first hours after giving birth

New mother with newborn baby after birth

Goodbye dignity. Hello motherhood.

I’m calling it – the first hours after giving birth are pretty intense. And gross. And can leave you in a drug-induced, physically-exhausted, mentally-dazed state where you’re not really sure whether you should shower, sleep, or just sit and stare at this amazing being you’ve just given birth to (the latter wins).

And while you may know you’re going to be tired and sore, here are some of the brutally honest (and awkwardly hilarious) things you probably didn’t know.

newborn baby straight after birth

New babies look kind of odd

They are covered in white goo, dried blood and have funny-shaped heads. But they are still really cute and small and amazing!

Plus, their bits are seriously massive

Swollen baby balls are pretty standard.

After-pains are the devil

Just when you think your uterus has done enough, after-pains strike (this is when your uterus contracts back to size after birth, normally when breastfeeding bub). And it pretty much feels like someone is stabbing you in the guts and possibly down the legs as well.

Ask for painkillers. A lot of them.

And bowel movements are no picnic either

‘Grin and bear it’ takes on a whole new meaning.

Baby’s first poo will probably require fifteen towels, a shovel and three workmen, possibly in hard hats

Because it’s not poo. It’s black paste. And changing your first nappy is not as simple as wiping poop off a little bum. It’s a lesson on how to remove glued-on-tar from a very sensitive surface. A trade certificate may be required.

You’re going to be a bloody mess

Not just emotionally. But literally too.  Just prepare for blood. In the shower. On the sheets. On your massive granny undies. It’s normal.

You’re going to walk like you’ve … well, just given birth

Think you mastered the waddle during those final weeks of pregnancy? The after-pushing-baby-out waddle is even more distinctive.

If your baby actually does fall asleep at night, then the newborn next to you in the hospital ward will pull an all-night screaming match

And you will go from feeling sorry for the new mum to wanting to kindly shove her crying baby back inside her uterus. 

When people come and visit you, it’s pretty much standard to have a boob out

Because all newborns want to do is suck on your breast and sleep. 

Oh, and poop tar.

newborn baby resting on mother

Your baby will be upset but don’t take it personally

He just likes to cry. And he is probably a little annoyed at you for forcing him to exit his comfortable womb home. 

Your stomach looks ridiculous

Like a bowl full of jelly. But not even the slightest bit jolly.

Your tummy will be wriggling with saggy skin and stretch marks and may possibly resemble a jumping pillow that small dolls can bounce on.

And your lady bits aren’t looking too hot right now either

They definitely hate you right now.

In fact, you pretty much look like a swollen, battered version of your previous self

But, hey, you just had a baby. So at least you have an excellent excuse, right? And, trust me, the little one in your arms is worth it all!

What’s next on the parenting journey? Just you wait and see – here are a few more things to expect once you bring your newborn home.

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