Baby Led Weaning: A Fad, or a Fabulous Choice?
Baby Led Weaning: A Fad, or a Fabulous Choice?
Baby-led Weaning (BLW),, is a method that has gained a lot of attention in the world of parenting. This method allows babies to feed themselves soft, small pieces of food at the beginning of their solid foods journey. Some parents swear by this method, while others are unsure if it is right for their child or just a passing fad. This article will explore the world of BLW and its pros and cons. It will also examine how it fits in with the larger picture of infant feeding practices.
The Kitchen Chaos: A BLW Experience
Set the scene. The kitchen is humming with activity. It’s the same energy that you would expect to see in a busy Melbourne cafe at breakfast. The kitchen is buzzing with activity. Avocados are being cut, toasts are being browned, and eggs are scrambled. Fresh berries have been rinsed and arranged. My baby, who is in his highchair and watching with interest, has expressed his mild irritation at the long wait for food. I think to myself: “At the very least, he won’t be able to leave a negative review on Google.”
I carefully plate his breakfast, a culinary masterwork designed to meet the gold standard of baby-led feeding: soft and manageable food pieces ready for his fingers. It’s clear that the goal is to give him an exciting and delicious opportunity to discover food on his own. Then he looked at the food and then turned to me completely unimpressed. Not the response I had hoped for.

In a matter of minutes, the majority of the food is on the floor. A small amount of the food, far less than I had hoped for, made its way briefly into his mouth. What about the rest? He’s more interested in his toys, chewing on random objects and even someone else’s eyeglasses. I feel a bit disappointed by the amount of food he eats.
The reality of Baby-Led Weaning struck me hard the next morning. My baby was not interested in the meal I spent hours making. Is this method as good as everyone said it was, or is it just a passing trend?
What is Baby-Led weaning (BLW), exactly?
Let’s take a closer view of this feeding method before deciding if baby led weaning will be the best approach for your baby.
Baby led weaning eliminates the need to spoon feed or use purees. Parents offer their babies soft, small pieces of food they can pick up themselves. It is believed that even babies at a very young age are capable of self-feeding. Allowing them to do so from an early age can be beneficial for their development and eating habits.
The method gained popularity in the early 2000s thanks to the efforts of Gill Rapley, Tracey Murrell who wrote the book Baby Led Weaning: A Guide for Introducing solid Foods. The movement gained a lot of traction when parents began to embrace their advocacy.
Baby-Led Weaning: The Benefits
The appeal of BLW for many parents is the promise that it will foster independence, self regulation, and a better relationship with food. BLW advocates often highlight the following benefits:
1. Development of Motor Skills & Dexterity
BLW has the benefit of encouraging babies to use their fingers and hands to manipulate food. This helps develop fine motor skills. Self-feeding babies are more likely develop better hand-eye co-ordination and finger dexterity. These skills are crucial for later milestones such as being able to hold utensils and feed themselves.
The process of feeding yourself can also help develop babies’ oral-motor skills. The baby will learn to eat, chew and bite at their own pace. This can help develop speech and eating skills.
2. Better Self-Regulation of Food Intake
Baby-led weaning allows babies to control how much food they consume and regulate their hunger. It can teach them to eat only when they are hungry, and stop eating when they are full. This skill can be carried over into adulthood.
Many parents report that their babies are less likely than others to overeat when they are fed by BLW. It may reduce the risk of unhealthy eating habits and obesity in later childhood.
3. Reduce Picky Eating
Some parents believe that BLW reduces picky eating among toddlers. According to the theory, if babies are exposed to different textures and tastes early on, they will be more open to trying new foods. BLW advocates believe that self-feeding helps babies become more comfortable around food. This may make them less picky eaters in later life.
4. Convenience to Parents
The time and effort that BLW saves parents is one of its major selling points. You can prepare soft food pieces and let your child explore the food on their own. It eliminates the need to spoon-feed your baby constantly and streamlines mealtimes.
BLW also makes meals more inclusive as babies can eat food that is similar to the rest of their family but modified a little for their development stage.

Cons of Baby-Led weaning
Although baby-led feeding has many benefits, there are also some challenges and risks. Parents should be aware of the following concerns:
1. Choking Hazards
Choking is the biggest risk associated with BLW. As babies are not being spoon-fed or given purees, they are more likely to encounter food that is too large, too hard or poorly prepared. If babies are not closely supervised, they may choke if the food is too large, too hard or improperly prepared.
BLW parents are advised to offer only foods that are soft, and the right size for their child. Nuts, raw fruits and tough meats should be avoided. Close supervision during mealtimes is essential.
2. Lack Of Research Supporting Its Beneficial
While BLW has gained popularity, there are still few studies that can support the claims of its supporters. Researchers found in a study that was published in Current Nutrition Reports that while there are some studies which suggest BLW can encourage positive development outcomes, they were limited by the small sample size, biased reporting and lack of long-term research. Researchers concluded that further research was needed to understand the risks and benefits of BLW in different populations and settings.
3. Nutritional Concerns
Many parents also worry about whether BLW provides enough nutrition for a growing child. In their first year, babies need lots of nutrition and calories. Some parents worry that self-feeding babies may not get enough nutrients. Parents can ensure their baby receives the correct amount of food, in terms of calories and nutrients, by using purees.
Some babies may be more interested in food than others. Parents may wonder if their baby is getting the nutrition they need.
4. Chaos and Mess
The mess is an unavoidable side effect of BLW. When babies are learning to feed themselves, they often cause a mess at mealtime. Food can be found everywhere: in the hair, on their highchair tray and even on the wall. This can be frustrating for parents who prefer a clean, organized environment at mealtimes. This aspect of BLW may be a turn-off for those who hate cleaning up every meal.
Is Baby-Led weaning a Fad?
While I was sitting at the table watching my son play rather than eat his food, I began to question whether baby led weaning would be the best option for us. The method has gained popularity in the past decade. However, I was unsure if it would be a parenting trend that will last or a fad.
There’s a ton of research that supports the benefits of BLW. However, it’s also surrounded by a lot hype. BLW is a parenting technique that works for some babies, but not others. Remember that each baby is unique and what works for one may not work well for another.
It all comes down to your personal preference, comfort and the needs of your baby. If your child is interested in self-feeding and ready to try solids, BLW could be a great option. If your baby prefers purees, or isn’t yet ready to self-feed then you can stick to the traditional method of spoon-feeding.
A Happy Medium: Blending approaches
After trying BLW, and observing my baby’s lack of interest, I adopted a hybrid approach. I started offering my baby a mixture of finger foods and purees to ensure that he got the nutrition he required while still allowing self-feeding.
Around the seven-month mark I noticed that my baby had a growth spurt and was requesting more frequent breastfeeding. In order to meet his nutritional needs, I began offering pureed and mashed foods as well as finger foods. I felt at ease knowing that my child was getting the right amount of calories and nutrients, while also being able to explore his food.
Tips for parents considering baby-led weaning
Here are some tips you should keep in mind if you decide to baby-led wean your child.
- Start Slowly and Steadily: Begin by offering soft foods such as avocados, sweet potatoes cooked, or vegetables steamed that are easy to hold and chew for your child.
- Safety first: Supervise your baby at mealtimes and make sure the food you serve is safe, sized appropriately, and has the right texture.
- Patience: Allow your baby to explore foods at his or her own pace. It’s normal for some babies to take longer than others to get used to BLW.
- Create a balanced meal plan: Combine BLW and purees for your baby to get the nutrients he needs while also promoting self-feeding.
- Listen to Your Baby: Each baby is unique. Follow your baby’s lead and adjust your approach as necessary.

Conclusion: Baby-Led Weaning Decision
Baby-Led Weaning can be a great choice for some families. For others, however, it may be a passing fad. To make the best decision for your child, you must approach BLW as a method that is open-minded and accept that not all methods will work. Every baby is different, and the feeding methods that work for one child may not work for another.
Some parents swear by BLW and praise the fine motor skills and independence it encourages. Others find greater success with a hybrid approach, combining purees and finger food. It’s okay to do that! It’s important to find out what is best for you and your child. If BLW is the best fit for your child, then go ahead. But if it’s not, you can adopt a different approach to meet their developmental and preferences needs.
The key to success is experimentation. Be flexible and don’t hesitate to experiment with different approaches. What doesn’t work one day might be a great idea later. Babies change and grow quickly, so it is important to keep in mind that what didn’t work earlier may become successful later. If you start out with BLW, and later find that spoon-feeding is better for your baby or his temperament, it’s possible to switch. You might find that your baby thrives on a mixture of both. You can adjust your parenting style as you go.