8 Reasons Holidays With Your Mum Gal Pals are the absolute BOMB
Don’t misunderstand me, I love my family. I treasure the holidays we spend together. If I’m honest, nothing – and I mean absolutely nothing – compares to an escape with your mum group. Spending time with mums who understand uniquely, joyful, and fun experience. I just returned from an amazing trip to Bali, where I went with 10 of my closest friends, all mums. If you are thinking of taking a vacation with your mum buddies, here are eight reasons why this is the best type of holiday any mum could have.
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1. There are Many Planners – Shared Responsibility Means no Stress
When you plan a family vacation, most of the responsibility falls on your shoulders. You are the expert researcher. You compare hotels, search for the best offers, book flights, sort out travel insurance, renew passports, create itineraries, etc. It can be exhausting and overwhelming.
When you travel with a group, you have an amazing team of organizers. Everybody pitches in, whether it is finding accommodation, scouting out restaurants, or organizing activities. One super-organised mum even offered to be the one in charge of bookings for our trip. This allowed the rest us to relax and trust that the plan would work. I felt a huge weight lifted off my shoulders knowing that we all contributed and no one had to carry the entire trip on their own back. The planning became more fun, collaborative, and less stressful.
2. Only You Can Pack for Maximum Freedom and Minimal Luggage
You know that packing for a holiday with your family is no easy task. It’s a big job to pack for a family holiday, with clothes for everyone and the essentials. You will have to do a lot of laundry and fill your suitcase to capacity. Yo pack diapers, toys, snacks and blankets for babies and toddlers.
Are you planning a trip for mums only? Let’s forget all that. You suddenly find yourself packing for only you, which is revolutionary. It was a breather for me to just throw some basics into a bag without overthinking it. The best part is? You can always buy what you forgot when you arrive. You won’t have to carry unnecessary equipment, or worry about baby wipes and that extra jumper. The ultimate luxury was to pack light.
3. Flight Fantastic – Peace, Quiet, & a Little Vino
Flying with children? You know what to do: avoid tantrums, clean up messes, and manage restless bodies. Also, calm fears and find toys lost in the aisles. Children can make long-haul flights feel like a race.
What if you don’t have kids? You’re in for a new experience. It was all about catching up, drinking wine, watching movies, and having un, uninterrupted conversations on the plane. There was no need to jump around constantly, soothe a crying baby, or entertain bored children. We were chatting and relaxed during the flight, so it flew by. It was a relaxed, fun, and indulgent atmosphere. If you’re going on a mum-only vacation, it means that you can fly in style, even if the flight is economy.
4. You Can Have Peace of Mind with Support at Home
Even the most loving partner can’t match the constant attention and energy that parenting requires. While trying to relax, you worry about meals, routines, , naps, and emergency situations Holidaying with mum friends while your partner stays at home, the experience is completely different. You can truly relax when you know your children are safe, either with your partner or other family members. There’s no constant guilt or checking in. Separation feels more like a pleasure than a challenge. Relax knowing that the family is well taken care of and your children are receiving the usual attention and love. The trip becomes a pleasure rather than a stressful experience.
5. Catch Up Central
What is the best part of traveling with your mom mates? Real adult conversations. Uninterrupted conversations can seem like a luxury when you have kids at home. At best, you get short bursts between school runs, naps, or dinner prep.
We had plenty of time to chat on this trip. There were no interruptions, and we could focus solely on each other. We were able to share in depth what wain-depthon in our lives. We discussed parenting challenges, exchanged Netflix recommendations and laughed over celebrity gossip. This is the kind of conversation that makes you feel seen and heard. The quality time spent together strengthens relationships in a way no other coffee catch-up could. This is soul food for mothers who are often the ones to put others first.
6. Girl Stuff – Pampering without Guilt
You might squeeze in a quick massage or coffee while on holiday with your family, but you have limited time to take care of yourself. Men are often reluctant to spend a whole day at the spa or on multiple shopping trips.
It’s different when you are with your girlfriends. We all had at least two or three treatments a day, including manicures, facials and massages. We spent hours in the shops, ate long, leisurely lunches at restaurants and cafes, drank cocktails by the swimming pool and danced to cheesy songs. No guilt, no compromise. Pure, unapologetic “me” time mixed with “we” time recharges you like nothing else.
7. Solo Vibes – Sleeping Well and Doing What You Want
It was heavenly to be able to sleep in a large, soft bed, with fluffy pillows and fresh sheets. No snoring spouse, no toddler crawling in bed at midnight, no nightmares, or runny noses. Each night was like a mini-retreat.
The freedom was extended throughout the day. There was a loose schedule for the group, but everyone could take a nap in the afternoon, get a massage alone, or read a book by a pool. Everyone was free to do what they wanted. Pure, guilt-free liberation! Who among us mums doesn’t want that level of autonomy?
8. Mums Understand and Care — A Supportive Tribe
It’s a special feeling to be with other mothers who understand exactly what you are going through. This was very clear on our trip. Unfortunately, I was sick for the majority of our trip (a stomach virus!) but my friends rallied immediately–offering vitamins, advice, and all kinds of care. We also supported and comforted another mum who was pregnant.
The empathy of the team made it feel as if we were wrapped in a warm blanket. We had mini-check-ins on FaceTime, bought FaceTime for kids, and knew what each person required every day. The camaraderie, care and kindness were very powerful. You find a special sisterhood on Amum’s only holiday that makes life easier and more enjoyable.
Why Mum Holidays are the Best!
Sorry, husbands, kids, but when it comes time to go on holiday, I’d rather be with a group of mums! These trips are unforgettable because of the freedom, laughter, shared experiences, and deep connections. These trips recharge your soul and remind you that you are more than just a mother. They also create lasting memories.
My advice to you is simple. If you are thinking of planning a mom getaway, do it. Book it. Start talking to your friends about a destination. There’s nothing better than a trip with your mom, gal pals.
Are you girls ready for the second round? We’re already looking forward to our next adventure.
