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Understanding Erections in Young Boys

Understanding Erections in Young Boys

It is normal for healthy men to have erections, but for mothers, it can be quite disconcerting when their babies or little boys start having them. Unsure if this is normal? You’ve always wanted to know more about children’s erections but were embarrassed to ask. ).

Early risers

Baby boys can have erections as early as the womb! Don’t be surprised if your baby boy has an erection when you are changing his diaper, or taking a bath. As boys get older and more mobile, it’s natural for them to explore their bodies. This includes touching their penis or even trying to make the penis erect.

It’s not uncommon for babies and toddlers alike to experience frequent Erections. They will not, however, lead to ejaculation, unlike adult erections. This is not until puberty. On average, this happens around age 11 or older. Phew!

Understanding Erections in Young Boys
Understanding Erections in Young Boys

Why do they occur?

It’s not just sexual that causes erections. When it comes to newborns, there are many reasons why they may have erections. It could be that the air is hitting their male genitals as you change them or their bladder is filled and they must urinate.

It’s normal and nothing to be concerned about. This is completely normal, and a sign that all is well down there.

The erection may occur in older babies or toddlers who have discovered that it is pleasurable to touch, rub, or play with their Penis. This is completely normal and should not be discouraged. There are ways to manage it so that you, your partner or others don’t feel uncomfortable.

Managing penis play

Your child should not feel embarrassed or guilty for having an erection, or even touching himself. No one wants to be seen doing this in the park or at the dinner table.

Keep calm and explain gently to your child there is a place and time for penis playing – only in private.

He must wait until he is alone to perform this act. Some boys rub their penis against things such as the bed or toys before going to sleep. This can be a hard habit to break.

It’s not all fun and games

Some boys are not happy with erections. Some children are scared by the changes in their genitalia or find them uncomfortable or painful. This is especially true if it’s a strong erection that lasts a long time. Do not be surprised if you hear your child crying out or complaining about the pain. Explain to your son that this is a common occurrence for boys. You can make him feel more comfortable by showering him or by wearing loose pants.

Worry about what?

The majority of erections in children are harmless and normal. They usually subside on their own and without any problems. There are some instances where it could be more serious. It’s important to consult a doctor if your son has an erection that lasts more than one hour, is red has a rash or fever, or looks very swollen.

It could be that the erections you are experiencing are painful and long. This is a condition known as priapism, which occurs only in men over 50 or boys between 5-10 years old who have leukaemia. Untreated, this condition can lead to permanent penile or erectile dysfunction. See a doctor if your son’s erections last for a long period and are painful.

Congratulations on the birth of your baby boy! This is your guide for the two new members of your family, your baby and his penis.

When I found out that I was expecting, I thought it was a boy. It’s not because I have nieces or that I am good at organizing craft supplies and throwing pretend tea parties. I knew that boys, including my second son, also loved all of those things, but, for some reason, I felt that I would be having a female child. It’s just how things work, right? The universe will do what is best for you. It could be true. But if it is, then the universe thought I needed two boys in my life. So I got 2.

How to adjust to life with a baby boy

It was not the first time I had a boy. But I was also excited about having a healthy child, so I did not dwell on it. The day he was born, I looked at his puffy eyes (three-day labour produces a fluffy baby), and I felt bad for the parents of girls.

missed out. There may be a plan, a guiding factor or even our hormones at work. It didn’t matter what it was, I loved my babies with such passion and intensity. Not just any but that. The rest of the world was a distant memory. Since that day, I’ve been a #boymom.

We learned that as a woman who was raising boys and a man with only a sister, we needed to develop a new set of skills that would help us in our parenting.

We also manage their two sidekicks, who are independent from the start. We’re talking penises. Now, moms and dads of boy children! Here’s everything you need to learn about your baby boy and his bundle of joy, moms and dads! ):

 

Mom and Child Talking
Mom and Child Talking

Parents are very vocal about penises.

They have some great tips! When I first asked for advice about my newborn, a close friend told me that sometimes little boys pee beyond the diaper, which is not only messy but also makes them freak out because they get wet. It’s best to point their “hose” at the ground before you put on the new diaper. This usually solves the problem. You won’t find these things in baby books. Listen up!

Circumcision has become a controversial topic, read up on it!

The subject of circumcision is quite fascinating. I strongly opposed circumcision, but let my husband make the decision (it felt right), as long as he read up on it. Here’s what we learned about circumcising.

  • The baby’s fine. Was worried that he would be in pain. But it was only a short procedure, and he returned the same as when he first left. Calm and ready to pass out and nurse.
  • Vaseline. Take the most tubes you can from the hospital. You can easily squeeze out a perfect ring at every diaper change, without touching the vaseline or getting it under your fingernails.
  • The wound heals very quickly. I asked the nurse at the hospital when I could stop applying Vaseline. If I knew the end date, I would make him keep applying Vaseline until he left. It doesn’t work for 18 years. Just keep applying Vaseline until the two-week checkup, when they will check on the healing process. Stock up on tubes of Vaseline and use it generously at each diaper change.
  • I am not qualified to tell you what special care your child will need if you do not circumcise him. Please discuss this with his pediatrician.

Burp Cloths are used for more than burping!

As quickly as you can, lay the burp cloth on the penis when changing the diaper. The purpose is to soak up and catch the pee which will most likely shoot up into your face. They have a remarkable aim, and they can find any little space between your lips. I’m serious. PeePee Teapot may be cute, but it won’t do.

Be alert to and prepared for baby boners.

Not only will you be surprised by them, but your child will too! You’ll first encounter them when changing diapers, particularly in the middle of the night. It is important to have a burp cloth to cover the erection because the stream of pee that comes out will go straight into the baby’s mouth. Baby does not like it.

You may also notice that your older babies or toddlers will fidget with their diapers/pants at times. It’s possible that they have a small child at attention, and are trying tog figure out what is going on. My two-year-old son was crying because his penis looked “weird”. I told him that they can fill with blood and that the best thing to do is stop touching them and focus on something else. We sing songs or play games to make it go away. Once he verbalizes what is happening, he will stop grabbing his penis every time. He’ll simply announce that it is full of blood. He’ll still do it occasionally, but it will be much less frequent. It’s a good thing. (Trust me.

Penis plus Car Seats

Let’s not bore you with too many details. I will only cover two major issues.

Be careful. Even with a diaper on, it’s easy to pinch your little buddy with the five-point harness. Use the tension strap. and tighten the harness. This brings me to my next point.

It is not uncommon for children to have an erection when they are in their car seats. Tell him that you understand and it will pass soon. Even a slight release of tension in the straps can help.

While we were saying goodbye to my friend, her 2-year-old son started screaming that he wanted out. She explained to him that the family couldn’t leave the car, and they had to return home. She said that he was so tired but had such a good time, so he didn’t want him to leave. I told her about toddler erections in the car seat, and she became very interested. At first, I thought she was offended, but she hugged me, saying, “I would never have thought that!” She then loosened the buckle and everything was fine. That was a game-changer.

Motherhood Concept
Motherhood Concept

Playtime often involves penises, and you must (at least seem to be) okay with this.

You just have to. When I was waiting for my son’s penis to stop rubbing with his favourite goat stuffed animal, I said matter-of-factly, “That’s it, buddy.” Then, I got the idea. I am the mom of a cute little boy and his penis. And I love both of them unconditionally.

Allow them to rub their favourite stuffy for a few minutes on their penis (clean). In the comfort of their own home, let them play and talk about it. As they grow older, explain the boundaries. If I could have a dime to show how many times I explained that brothers shouldn’t touch penises or pee on each other, I would be very wealthy.

It’s our job to help them navigate a relationship I cannot relate to as a woman! We will all feel less embarrassed, awkward, and fearful if we discuss it more.

Since my children are now 3 and 6 years old, I tell them calmly to put the item away in front of other people. If they still want to touch it or have it on display, then go to their rooms. (I mean we’re raising the next generation of males, #nomoremetoo. Amiright ?!).? The more we discuss it and set expectations for them, the better they will understand what to do with a little best friend attached to their body.

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