Is my baby tired?
Some signs of a tired baby include: rubbing eyes, avoiding eye contact, fussing, yawning, clingy, sucking on fingers or hands, touching ears, crying, difficulty focusing, frowning, arching back.
A simple baby sleep routine
Every baby is different, and at this early age, parents need to adapt to their baby’s changing sleep requirements.
What you can do is begin to introduce a consistent way of caring for your baby:
- When your baby wakes up: Try the FEED, PLAY, SLEEP routine
- Offer them a feed – breast or bottle
- Change their nappy / clothes
- Talk to, play with or read to your baby
- Watch for tired signs
- Swaddle and put baby to bed when they are drowsy
+ Many families adopt this FEED, PLAY, SLEEP approach to avoid their child associating sleeping with feeding in the future. This is to help encourage the baby to settle to sleep without needing hands-on parenting.
+ Other families opt for PLAY, FEED and then SLEEP, putting their bubs down on a just-filled tummy right after a feed.
+ At night time, attend to your baby with a minimum of conversation and eye contact, and help them settle back to sleep in the way that feels right for you.
+ This might involve: swaddling, giving a dummy, patting, feeding to sleep, co-sleeping*, rocking or walking.
+ Keep in mind that all babies respond to routines differently. So if you've tried this one without much success, one of our sleep experts can work with you one-on-one to tweak your baby's routine, so you can both get some more sleep.
*Please refer to our safe sleep guidelines.
Is this a ‘sleep regression’?
- Many parents report a ‘sleep regression’ where a baby who had begun to settle into a routine starts sleeping terribly.
- This shift is related to developmental growth – your baby is changing, and her sleep habits are changing with her. Think of it as transition rather than a regression – and know that she will continue to change as she grows.
How long do babies sleep for in total?
- At this age, total sleep ranges from 9 to 19 hours in a 24-hour period.
What about naps?
- A clearer pattern of daytime naps may be emerging.
- Babies will take around 3 naps a day, sometimes 4. That said, every baby is different, so if your baby is doing something else, fear not!
“Baby sleep isn’t problematic. They’re supposed to wake often in the night, and they’re designed to seek out comfort and support to help them go back to sleep.” - Karina Lane, parenting coach
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Meet our sleep experts
Chris Minogue is a much-loved mothercraft nurse with over 30 years of experience in providing care and support for parents of newborns, infants and toddlers. Chris is the author of Bringing Baby Home.
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Jo Ryan was a Registered Nurse for nearly 20 years, with much of that time spent working in paediatrics. As well as being a Registered Nurse, Jo has a Bachelor of Arts and a Masters of Public Health and has recently completely a year of Infant Mental Health Advanced Training. Jo’s is also the author of BabyBliss, Australia’s must-have guide to sleeping, settling and establishing routines for your baby.
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Karina Lane is a mum of four, postnatal doula, parenting educator, psychology graduate and parenting coach. She has helped hundreds of mums and dads resolve their sleep issues and enjoy parenting with less stress and more magic. Karina is known for her message of gentle, responsive (and realistic!) parenting.
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Covering everything from sleep regression and cat-napping, to wakeful nights and cluster feeding, Sleep School’s one-on-one baby sleep consultations can untangle these challenges — and many others — to arm tired parents with strategies designed to turn things around.
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