Genius group supports dads who are keen to improve their parenting skills

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A common regret for dads is not spending enough time with their children. Dr Bruce Robertson is here to change all that. 

The Fathering Project

For many dads, letting go of the way their fathers showed them how to parent – which was usually in a more traditional way – can be challenging.

That’s one of the reasons why Dr Bruce Robertson founded The Fathering Project, a peer-to-peer support group and online resource for dads. Bruce told Babyology’s podcast Feed Play Love the idea came to him while he was working as a doctor: 

“In my role as a doctor [I often hear dads] talk reflectively: ‘I wish I’d spent more time with my kids’. Or, ‘I wish someone had told me how important it was to be a dad and how to do it’.” 


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For dads who grew up with more traditional role models, modern issues facing kids – like cyber-bullying, obesity, pornography and drugs – can seem bewildering. 

The Fathering Project peer support program addresses these issues by showing men that their role as dad is really important, and helps them learn – in lots of different ways – how to be great dads. 

“Our work in The Fathering Project has shown us that … men can change,” Dr Robertson says.

Listen to Dr Bruce Roberston on Feed Play Love:

Overcoming stereotypes

A big part of the project is going to schools and speaking with dads to encourage them to pull together. 

“We champion dads’ groups in these meetings, which encourages men who might not know what to do,” Dr Robertson explains.

“The idea that men can’t talk about [parenting] is not correct because they do love their kids and they want to be a good dad.”

“When you get a bunch of dads together, it’s not natural to them but they can get into it quickly.”

Dads learn how to parent differently to mums 

When researching for The Fathering Project, Bruce noticed that popular parenting books were mostly read by mums. 

“It’s all very well to write a 200-page book for men, but they won’t read it … I wrote something short that I call a ‘dunny book’, which means dads can just pick it up and flick through a few points.”

As part of the project, dads will also receive an email tip once a week and have access to the resource-loaded The Fathering Project website.

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Aim for a rich and fulfilling inner life 

Dr Robertson notes that the key to happiness as a parent is not to compartmentalise your work responsibilities from your family life and your relationship with yourself.

He believes dads who have active relationships with their mates – perhaps heading away for the weekend with the boys – are role-modelling the importance of a rich life to their kids.

“It shows your kids that you are not ‘just’ a dad, but also a person and good friend. As long as you offer the same opportunity to your partner to also get away, and be willing to look after the kids.”

“It’s all about learning how to parent and making it part of having a rich and fulfilling life,” Dr Robertson explains.

This post was originally published on Kinderling Kids Radio. Download the Kinderling app for more great stories. 

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