The Absolute Best Things about Having Kids of the Same Gender
Let’s face it: Having kids of the same gender is an invaluable parenting tool you never knew you needed. Every family is different, but I’m sure you can relate if, like me, you have two boys who are three years apart and born in the same year. They also share a closet with a lot of second-hand clothes. It’s almost like winning the parenting lottery without trying.
Let’s explore the benefits of having siblings who are also of the same gender and discover why this is a secretly wonderful thing.
1. Double Clothes for Double Convenience
You don’t have to rush out and buy new clothes for your second child when the first one grows out of his baby clothes. You can reuse those cute outfits, saving both money and time. If they were born in the same year, you can be prepared for any weather conditions without having to go on a last-minute shopping spree. You’ll feel like your wardrobe has grown overnight.
2. Toys that Keep on Giving
When your second child arrives, you can reuse these toys with no fuss. There may be a few squabbles over who gets what to play, but in the end, this is a great idea. As they grow older, their shared interest can lead to many hours of cooperative play. This will foster a strong bond between siblings.
3. No Need to Re-Nursery
Setting up a nursery is a huge task, but if you have a second baby of the same gender, it becomes easier. You already have the crib, bedding, and decor. It saves time and ensures that your home is consistent. It’s also one less thing for you to worry about when you are preparing your home for a baby.
4. Less Waste
You can reuse the stationery you used for your firstborn if you like to send thank-you notes or keep a baby diary. Use what you already have. No need to purchase new cards or paper. This is a cost-effective and eco-friendly way to continue the tradition.
5. Parenting Skills on Point
You’re a pro by the time you have your second child. You have mastered diaper changing, feedings at midnight, and soothing techniques. You become more efficient and confident as a parent. Although each child is different, having children of the same gender can help certain parenting aspects feel more familiar.
6. Baby Shower Deja Vu
It doesn’t need to be stressful planning a baby shower for your second child. You know what works and what doesn’t. Reusing decorations, themes, games, and other elements from your first baby shower will make the event more enjoyable and relaxed. Your guests will also appreciate the thoughtfulness and continuity.
7. A Parent’s Dream: Matching Outfits for Children
It’s adorable to see your children all dressed the same. Matching outfits are a great way to create memories, whether it is for a family photo or simply because. They may protest later, but for now, it’s an adorable way to show off your parenting skills and celebrate the bond between siblings.
8. Less Conflict
Children with similar interests often share the same sports, hobbies, or games. This can lead to fewer fights over toys and more cooperative play. They learn to be teammates, rather than rivals.
9. Travel and Outings Made Easier
You can pack the same clothing and equipment for your trip when you have the same gender. There is no need to worry about preferences or needs. The uniformity of the packing simplifies packing and ensures everyone has everything they need. This makes family outings less stressful and more enjoyable.
10. Stronger Sibling Bond
Growing up with siblings of the same gender fosters a lasting, deep connection. They can especially understand each other. This shared perspective can result in a supportive, long-lasting relationship.
11. Less Pressure to Conform to Gender Norms
It can be easier to comply with gender roles when you have children who are the same gender. It’s easier to manage the pressures of raising both boys and girls. This can result in a more relaxed style of parenting and a family environment that values individuality above societal norms.
12. Simple Social Situations
Social situations such as playdates and birthday parties are easier to organize when your children share the same gender. It’s easier to find activities that suit different genders or interests. Socializing can be less stressful for you and your child.
13. Shared Experiences
From school projects and family vacations to similar experiences, children of the same gender often share the same experiences. It creates shared experiences that help strengthen the bond between them and give you a wealth of stories to look back on in the future.
14. Easier Hand-Downs
Clothes and toys are available in every store. You can easily pass items down from one child’s gender to another. It is an eco-friendly choice that not only reduces waste but also saves you money.
15. Less Competition for Parental Attention
Sibling rivalry is common in all families, but children of the same gender may experience less competition to get parental attention. It is because they often have similar interests and needs. This can make for a harmonious home and reduce conflict.
16. Gift Giving Made Simple
Buying gifts for the same-gender children can make it easier to buy them on holidays or birthdays. It’s easier to select gifts that your child will love because you know their interests and preferences.
17. Shared Identity
Siblings of the same gender help children develop a sense of shared identity. They see themselves as a part of a group, and they often work together to support each other. This shared identity can increase self-esteem and create a strong feeling of belonging.
18. It’s Easier to Relate to Each Other
It is easier for children of the same gender to relate to one another’s experiences. The children share similar experiences and milestones. This can help them develop a greater understanding of each other.
19. Less Pressure to Be Different
There is less pressure on children to be different when they are of the same gender. It allows them to develop their personalities without being expected to conform to gendered roles and behaviors. This leads to a more authentic expression of self.
20. Shared Traditions and Routines
Having children of the same gender makes it easier to create shared routines and traditions. These practices help to create a sense of stability and continuity within the family. They also strengthen bonds and create lasting memories.
21. Simplified Home Management
Managing a family with children of the same gender is easier. The same size clothing, school supplies, and extracurricular activities can make planning and organization easier.
22. Makes it Easier to Plan Family Activities
When your children share similar interests and requirements, planning family activities is easier. When choosing a destination for a family vacation or a movie, it can be easier to make decisions when you have children of the same gender.
23. Shared Support Systems
Children with the same gender will often develop their support system and rely on one another for companionship. This shared support can help reduce loneliness and enable them to navigate through challenges together.
24. Less Gender-based Expectations
When children are of the same gender, there is less pressure from society to play gender-specific roles. This can result in a more relaxed approach to parenting and a home that values individuality above traditional gender norms.
25. Find common ground easier
It is easier to find common ground when children of the same gender share similar interests and preferences. This common understanding can result in smoother interactions and less conflict.
26. Enhance Teamwork Skills
Growing up with siblings of the same gender will improve teamwork. They can learn how to work together, share responsibilities, and support one another, skills they will use throughout their lives.
27. Shared Cultural Experiences
Children of the same gender share many cultural experiences. They may be on the same sports team or attend similar social events. These shared experiences strengthen their bond and can create a feeling of community.
28. Reduced Peer Pressure
There may be less pressure from peers to conform to gender specific behaviors or interests when children are of the same gender. This can result in a more authentic and relaxed childhood.
29. Simple Parenting Decisions
When your children share similar interests and needs, making parenting decisions can be easier. This can create a more harmonious dynamic in the family.
30. Shared Sense Of Humor
Children who share the same gender develop a sense of humor. They find the same jokes funny and enjoy the same things. The shared laughter between children can create happy memories and strengthen bonds.
31. Makes it Easier to Coordinate Schedules
It is easier to coordinate the schedules of children who are the same gender. They often have similar schedules and activities, which makes it easier to plan time.
32. Shared Learning Experiences
Children of the exact same gender will often have similar experiences in learning, whether they are learning to ride a bicycle or mastering a skill. These milestones can foster a feeling of accomplishment and unity.
33. A Stronger Family Identity
A stronger family identity can be achieved by having children of the same gender. A family with shared values, traditions, and experiences will feel more cohesive.
While every family is different, raising children of the same gender has many benefits. From practical advantages such as shared wardrobes, to emotional benefits such as stronger sibling relationships, having children of the same gender makes parenting easier and more enjoyable. Here’s to the untold joys of siblinghood, because sometimes the best things are packaged in the same package.
